10 Ways to Love Your Husband
1. Be kind
Most of the time we are kinder and more polite to strangers and acquaintances than we are to our spouse. It should not be that way, but often it is. Little acts of kindness can go a long way toward creating intimacy.
2. Demonstrate Respect
You are not his mother, so don’t talk down to him or nag him. And interrupting him communicates disrespect…(At least that is what Philip tells me!) So, let him finish his sentences…no matter how good you think your ending will be!
3. Get some sexy lingerie
Enough said really.
4. Occasionally you be the sexual aggressor.
He likes/needs to feel that you want him. Don’t just be the passive one. Mix it up!
5. Go with him to the game/sporting event.
He really does want your company. It is not about whether or not you like sports, just doing something with him shows your love. You are a smart woman, you can learn a thing or two about the sport!
6. Kiss him
And not just the quick ‘don’t mess up my lipstick’ kiss, but the ‘stop and grab his face’ kiss. Even if you don’t have time for it to lead anywhere …kissing is such a great connector!
7. Listen without interrupting
I know this is hard…
8. Encourage him
Say something encouraging to him. He probably hears negativity all day long from others, what can you say that would be encouraging? What has he done well? Be his biggest cheerleader!!
9. Say nice things about him in front of others
This is huge. And communicates love in a whole other way.
10. Show support for his dreams
Just come alongside him and support him. Life has a way of deflating our dreams. You be the one who lets him know you are with him.
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